Steve Platt collects articles and notes on online dating services, professional matchmaking, speed dating events, and relationship advice for a range of locations and demographics.
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The site covers speed dating events in Stratford-upon-Avon and Warwickshire, New Jersey singles and professional matchmaking with over 25 years of dating experience, the costs of online dating services including eharmony and Badoo, a guide to legitimate cougar dating sites and avoiding scams, an article on Olympic ice skating pairs and figure skating romances, and a guide for expat dating in Baku, Azerbaijan.
Speed Dating in Stratford-upon-Avon
Information on speed dating events in Stratford-upon-Avon and Warwickshire, aimed at single men and women across Herefordshire and the wider region. The page also serves as an introduction agency listing and points to free join options, photos, chat rooms, interest groups, and private webmail.
Locations covered include Stratford-upon-Avon itself as well as nearby towns such as Coventry, with references extending across Warwickshire.
New Jersey Singles & Professional Matchmaking
An overview of professional matchmaking services in New Jersey, highlighting personalized coaching and over 25 years of dating experience. The article describes how a matchmaker works to understand a client's relationship goals, gathers preferences on age range, height range, smoking status, financial security, and personality traits, then brings two people together with continued feedback.
Setting Up a Universal Remote to Control Every Device in Your Home Theatre
Four sofa cushions, three coffee tables, and a tangle of clickers nobody can find when the cricket is on. If that sounds like your loungeroom, a programmable clicker is the easiest way to tidy the mess and stop hunting for the right controller every time someone asks to switch from Foxtel to Netflix. The good news is that pairing a single handheld with your telly, amplifier, Blu-ray deck, and streaming box takes an afternoon at most, even if your gear spans three different brands and a projector hung from the ceiling.
Universal handsets come in a few flavours. Some rely purely on infrared and ship with a printed code book, others talk to your gear over radio frequency or Wi-Fi through a small base station, and the top-end models let you trigger whole sequences with one tap. Aussie shoppers will find the major chains well-stocked: JB Hi-Fi, Harvey Norman, and The Good Guys all carry entry-level units from One For All and Philips alongside the higher-end Logitech Harmony range. Prices run from about $35 for a basic replacement model up to $450 for a touchscreen unit and hub bundle.
Before any button is pressed, take ten minutes to write down every device the new remote needs to control. That list will save you from redoing the programming halfway through and from missing an input you forgot about, like a second HDMI source or the ceiling fan remote that turned out to control the projector lift. Grab the model number from the back of each piece of gear, the original remote that came with it, and the brand of any smart speaker sitting on the sideboard.
This guide walks through choosing a compatible handset, finding the right codes for Australian set-top boxes, building one-touch activities, linking the system to smart speakers, and fixing the gremlins that tend to pop up in brick-veneer loungerooms. You will end up with one device that does the job of five, plus the satisfaction of handing the family a remote they cannot lose under the couch.
Picking a handset that suits your gear and budget
Start by checking what your equipment actually needs. Older amplifiers and projectors speak only infrared, so they need line-of-sight to the sensor, while Foxtel's iQ box, Fetch, and most modern smart TVs can be controlled over Wi-Fi through a hub. If you own a mix of both, a model with a hub and infrared blaster, such as the Logitech Harmony Elite, is the easiest path. The entry-level option, a Harmony 665, handles infrared-only setups for around $200 at JB Hi-Fi, while the Elite with hub sits closer to $450 during Harvey Norman's quarterly sales.
For simpler setups without a receiver or smart TV, an infrared learning remote from One For All or Philips runs between $35 and $80 and works straight out of the box. These are the sort of units you grab when the dog finally got hold of the Foxtel remote. They cannot run multi-step sequences, but they will control eight devices reliably and are widely stocked at The Good Guys. Battery life and ergonomics matter more than people expect, so try to hold a demo model in-store before committing.
For a broader look at what to expect from various home theatre brands, the home theatre guide hub is a useful reference before you walk into a shop. A quick read of the manufacturer comparison sheets there can save you from buying a unit that does not speak the same protocols as your existing gear.
Preparing your equipment and tracking down the right codes
Once the hardware is in hand, the next step is matching each device to the right control profile. The handset's software or the printed booklet will ask you to pick a brand from a menu. Australian shoppers will find Hisense, Kogan, and TCL listed alongside the international names, which can save a lot of trial and error. For the Foxtel iQ4, Fetch Mighty, and Telstra TV boxes, the latest codes are usually included on a firmware update that the base station pulls in automatically the first time it joins your home Wi-Fi.
Take a few minutes to keep a written record of every code and the input mapping that works for each device. A simple notebook is fine, and a habit of tracking daily setup notes tends to pay off the next time a setting gets accidentally wiped during a software update. Record the IR code assigned to the amplifier, the Wi-Fi device ID for the projector, and the input label you used for "Watch Blu-ray" so you can recreate the whole setup on a replacement handset later.
If a device is missing from the built-in database, the learning function on most remotes solves it. Point the original remote at the new one, press the button you want to copy, and the universal unit records the signal. This trick works for quirky gear like a ceiling-mounted projector lift, a motorised screen, or a ducted air-con controller that shares the same brand as your AV gear. Just make sure the original remote has fresh batteries before you start, otherwise the learning process will record a weak signal that fails later.
Building activities that trigger several devices at once
The real payoff of a hub-based system is the ability to set up one-touch activities. An activity like "Watch Foxtel" can power on the projector, drop the motorised screen, switch the amplifier to HDMI 2, set the volume to a sensible starting level, and fire up the Foxtel box, all from a single tap. If you have ever had to walk a guest through four separate remotes just to get the footy on, this is where the frustration ends.
When setting delays between commands, leave at least half a second between power-on and input switching. Projectors and older amplifiers need time to fully boot before they accept a signal, and sending the input command too early often leaves the screen black. Test each activity in the early evening when the loungeroom is at a normal temperature, because some receivers behave oddly when they are still warm from a long summer arvo of use.
For households where the kids change the settings every weekend, lock the activity names to plain English. Labels like "Watch Apple TV," "Play Xbox," and "Listen to Music" beat "Activity 3" every time. The Harmony app also lets you tweak the custom tile layout for streaming boxes, which is handy when you want the icons to feel familiar to anyone picking up the handset for the first time.
Linking the system to smart speakers and streaming gear
A hub-based universal remote slots neatly into a smart home setup. The Logitech Harmony Hub talks directly to Alexa and Google Assistant, so you can say "Alexa, watch Stan" and have the projector, amplifier, and Apple TV all wake up at once. Echo speakers and Google Nest units are easy to set up with the Harmony skill inside their respective apps. Once linked, you can build routines that dim compatible lights, close motorised blinds, and lower the projector screen with a single spoken phrase.
For audio gear, it helps to know whether your amplifier supports the latest surround formats before you build activities that rely on them. The gap between Dolby Atmos and DTS:X matters when you are programming volume and speaker-level presets, and a quick read of the comparison between Atmos and DTS:X saves hours of guessing. Most Australian lounge setups with a soundbar or a 5.1 speaker package will use one or the other, not both, so it pays to confirm which one your gear prefers.
Power protection is worth a small investment, particularly given Australia's 240V mains and the way summer storms roll through Brisbane and Perth. A quality surge protector with individual switched outlets lets you cut standby draw from the projector, amplifier, and Foxtel box overnight. Plug the IR blaster and the Harmony Hub into always-on sockets, and the rest into switched ones. This keeps the hub awake for voice commands while still letting the family kill the rest of the stack with a single button before heading to bed.
Troubleshooting common gremlins in Aussie loungerooms
Even a well-programmed setup runs into the occasional hiccup. The most common complaint in brick-veneer homes is range: the infrared blaster tucked behind the amplifier cannot reach the Foxtel box on the other side of the cabinet, so the signal bounces off the wall and misses. Moving the blaster to the front edge of the cabinet, or adding a second wired blaster, usually fixes it. Wireless hubs solve the problem altogether by talking to Wi-Fi-capable devices over the network rather than line-of-sight.
Heat is another frequent offender. Ceiling-mounted projectors and receivers stacked in a closed cabinet run hot through the Australian summer, and thermal throttling can cause missed commands. Pull the equipment out for a quick dust, make sure the cabinet has a vent or a quiet 12V fan, and check that nothing is blocking the exhaust. While you are cleaning, take a moment to inspect the projector lens for dust spots, which a few careful steps to clean the lens will sort out without scratching the coating.
If the activity fires but the wrong input gets selected, open the app and re-check the input mapping for that device. Foxtel's iQ4 defaults to HDMI 1 for live TV but switches to a different input for recordings, which catches people out. Finally, when the handset itself stops responding after a year or two of daily use, a factory reset and fresh pairing clears the gremlins in most cases. With those fixes in mind, the universal remote should keep your home theatre running smoothly through many a summer of cricket, movies, and family arguments over the volume.
Legitimate Cougar Dating Sites
A guide to finding legitimate cougar dating sites, avoiding scams, and getting good results on platforms such as CougarDate.com, Cougar Life, and Adult FriendFinder. The article lists seven cougar dating sites, examines whether CougarDate.com is a scam, and includes a separate list of free dating and hookup sites.
Olympic Ice Skating Pairs and Romances
An article discussing prominent figure skating romances, marriages, and couples among Olympic ice skating pairs. It profiles eight Olympic ice skating pairs who are couples in real life and explains the required elements of pair skating, including lifts, twist lifts, throw jumps, jumps, and spins.
Expat Dating in Baku
A guide for expatriates looking to date in Baku, Azerbaijan. Topics include social life for expats, safety and comfort in areas like Downtown Baku, the visa process, getting around by mass transit, and monthly events for expatriates. The piece also references Baku hotels and places to stay.
Reformed Matchmaking and Jewish Dating
Content related to Reformed matchmaking, JRetroMatch, and Jewish matchmaking services within the context of religious observance. The article discusses Reform Judaism, the spectrum of positions on halakhic observance, and looks at how matchmaking functions within observant communities.
Age Gap Dating Advice
A discussion on age preferences in dating, referencing research guidelines and personal experiences with age-gap relationships. The piece references Psychology Today and examines whether one well-known age guideline may not work for everyone, along with personal anecdotes from readers.